To live to your full potential, you must overcome all sorts of obstacles and convert them to opportunities and strengths. In this book, Ryan Holiday explains how to go about doing that with 3 key disciplines. In The Obstacle is the Way summary, we’ll outline the 3 disciplines of Perception, Action and Will for turning trials to triumph. For more details, examples and tips, do get our complete book summary bundle in text, infographic and audio formats.
The Obstacle is the Way: Overview
All of us face obstacles. Such obstacles can be physical (e.g. size or ability), mental (e.g. knowledge or experience), or emotional (e.g. fear or frustration). Obstacles can also be real or perceived. Today, we face more internal obstacles than external ones. Faced with an abundance of options and progress, we’ve grown comfortable, soft and entitled.
Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius once wrote: “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” Successful organizations and individuals aren’t crushed by obstacles. They turn adversity to strength to end up even better than before they encountered the obstacles.
In this book, Ryan Holiday consolidates his analysis of ancient philosophers’ works on Stoicism into practical insights and tips to overcome obstacles. These are broken down into 3 disciplines:
• Perception: how you look at your problems;
• Action: how to tackle problems in actionable parts; and
• Will: how to cultivate and maintain your inner being to conquer problems and difficulties.
Combine Perception, Action and Will, and let the obstacles lead the way.
Part 1: Perception
During the financial crisis of 1957, John D. Rockefeller was still a small-time investor. Despite the mass panic, Rockefeller didn’t exit the market. Instead, he calmly saved up, used the opportunity to observe what was going on, and gained critical insights about the financial markets. Thereafter, Rockefeller applied the same composure, discipline and objectivity to invest in oil. Over the next 20 years, he gained control of 90% of the oil in the United States while his competitors languished.
Your perception is how you interpret what’s happening around you. It affects how you see and respond to a situation. To turn adversity to strength, the first step is to manage your perceptions: calmly and objectively evaluate what’s happening, look for opportunities, and actions within your control. In our complete book summary, we break this down further into examples and perspectives of how to:
• Be objective
• Acknowledge your Power
• Control your Nerves
• Not panic
• Modify your Perspective
• Focus on What You Can Do
• Focus on the Now
• Think Outside the Box; and
• Look for the Opportunity in the Problem
Part 2: Action
Famous Greek orator, Demosthenes, was a sickly child with a serious speech impediment. He lost his father at the age of 7 and his inheritance was stolen by his guardians. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, Demosthenes took extreme measures to conquer his obstacles. To overcome his speech impediment and strengthen his voice, he practiced speaking with his mouth full of pebbles or while running up steep slopes. Instead of going out to play, he locked himself underground to self-study.
Demosthenes eventually won a suit against his guardians, won back what was left of his inheritance, and went on to become a great orator. He was dealt a bad hand in life, but chose to take action and turn his challenges into strengths.
Once you have your perceptions and emotions under control, you’re ready to take real action. No matter how bad your situation, you can always choose to make the most of it. In the end, an obstacle will only be as big as you it make it out to be. Stop procrastinating or avoiding your problems. Take concrete actions to confront them. In our complete The Obstacle is the Way summary (click here for full summary), we elaborate further on what it means to:
• Stay in Motion
• Persist till you find a Solution
• Fail Forward
• Take One Step at a Time
• Do Every Job Well
• Go for the “Right” Approach (i.e. What Works)
• Choose Strategy over Brute Force
• Let Obstacles Eliminate Themselves
• Put your Frustration to Work; and
• Use Adversity to your Advantage
Part 3: Will
Abraham Lincoln, the 16th president of the United States, faced countless obstacles in his life. He had to struggle with poverty, the loss of both his mother and the woman he loved, educate himself, manage politics, depression, civil war and the fight against slavery. Through it all, he shouldered his burdens, found meaning in his struggles, and willed himself to keep going. In fact, Lincoln’s own suffering made him a more compassionate person. His favorite line was, “This too shall pass”.
Even with Perception and Action, you will still encounter unexpected trials in life. To endure and prevail, you must cultivate the will (or inner power) to confront obstacles over and over again. It’s about knowing that you can/will fail, yet taking the right, consistent actions regardless. Get the full 15-page summary for more insights on how to build your inner strength, including:
• Use Good Times to Prepare for Bad Times
• Plan for your Failures
• Accept your Problems
• Love Everything, including your Obstacles
• Persevere Till the End
• Focus on Helping Others
• Contemplate Death; and
• Embrace the Cycle of Life
Other Details in The Obstacle is the Way
In this book, Holiday presents a series of stories and citations to show you how to perceive, take action and persevere in face of obstacles. Do get a copy of the book for the full details, get our complete summary bundle for an overview of the various ideas and insights, or check out more resources/details at https://ryanholiday.net/. Loved this summary? Check out another book by Ryan Holiday: the Ego is the Enemy summary.
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